Passionate rant, but needed to be written down!

You know what? I am going to do a passionate rant post because I am sick and tired of this shit going on, and I am sick and tired of it still going on a daily basis. 

Let's just start from the beginning - no naming names, no public humiliation, therefore, no suing. I am FUMING, Like literally shaking I am that mad! 

There are so many people who have been bullied in High School but ALSO on Social Media - it's all so cliché and childish. You even get blocked for no good reason and you still happen to see the person you absolutely despise all over your newsfeed. Let's just, for example, use Twitter to help with my point. You know when you use the same hashtag as the person you have blocked? Well if you both use the same hashtag, you can still see each other's tweets. Stupid right? They are blocked for a reason.

At the beginning, I was 'friends' and able to civilly talk to this person and was also going to travel thousands of pounds worth to a holiday with other bloggers. But then I twigged, and saw that it is all a sham - I wanted to help the other Bloggers going to make them also realise this. I didn't want to cause drama; I wanted to help Bloggers not fall for the trap. That's the kind of person I am - it's not all about me, it's about looking out for other people.

Things got out of hand and a DAY worth of drama, tweeting to and fro, and even DM'ing and emailing back and forth with everyone. Let me just get one thing straight, I am NOT an attention seeker, but merely a helper and like to look out for you. If there is something happening and it will be a waste or a scam, then I will help you. There are many many bloggers who agree with me and are also keeping an eye out for bloggers who have fallen for her trap.

After about a week, I decided to let everyone do what they want; I blocked this certain person, and she blocked me back. However, on EVERY single Twitter Chat I join, I see HER there. I see her snide remarks; her petty tweets; her digs; everything. Also, when you see a tweet that 'relates' to the situation and yourself - not out of guilt but rather YOU JUST KNOW - then I just leave her to it but my blood really starts to boil.

There has been plenty of people DM'ing me about her and telling me everything she has done - WHY? - because PEOPLE CAN COME TO ME FOR HELP AND ADVICE but also to cry on my shoulder. I love it when people do that, but remember, I DON'T ASK FOR IT. I don't beg for people to come to me; I don't beg for the attention. I love to look out for people, as everyone needs someone to go to when there is no one else.

Can I repeat again: when you use the same hashtag as the person you have blocked, you can still see everything that is said. That is not stalking FYI. 

Which brings me to my next point. People use the words stalking and bullying wayy to much. There had been a chat recently on the 'bullying' subject and I was soo F-ing passionate about the subject, that I just went all heart and all out. I said what I needed to say in 140 characters, but I just needed to write a full length post on the subject.

This is not a 'I felt guilty so I am going to straighten it out' post, because I am NOT GUILTY of anything. I looked out for the bloggers, and I will keep doing that. However, I am going to not say anything, which I haven't since THAT DAY. Likewise, I would really appreciate it if that certain person would pipe down, grow up, and also cut the pitty act because she is not a victim. NO ONE is a victim in all this - it is High School drama that has gotten out of hand and I am sick of it.

I left High School FOUR YEARS AGO and I thought I was past all that shitty girly gossip crap, but apparently some people just don't grow up. What really infuriates me is when this certain person STILL goes on and on attention seeking and bringing up the past when you haven't even done anything wrong in the first place.

Ugh, I am still shaking so I am going to stop this post. I have said what I have had to say and I don't regret anything. If you need me, I am here for you. Done with the drama. 


Much love,




4 comments:

  1. Wow that was a big rant wasnt it haha I did hear about some of this via twitter and was asked by someone to go on that trip as well, i instantly refused.

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    1. Haha I know! I started writing and couldn't stop - I was raging! I'm glad you refused and didn't fall for it
      Thank you for commenting! x

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  2. "I know you'd like to think your shit don't stank
    But lean a little bit closer
    See that roses really smell like boo-boo
    Yeah, roses really smell like boo-boo"

    couldn't help but thinking about that song all evening yesterday xD

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    1. OMG that didn't half make laugh! Girl, i need more lyrics and GIFs haha

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